You touch upon so many important points -

Sometimes I think women are sometimes doing themselves a disservice - let me give you an example on this platform itself - a certain writer has her profile up in some sort of bathing suit or a similar attire and their article is how married women get jealous when she sashays down the street (likely in that kind of attire) - how can you blame the guys for looking or 'objectifying'? You can say you are free to wear whatever wherever but then you take umbrage when ppl look and comment?

I don't get it -