You know what Sara, I was reflecting along these lines last night - there have been events in my past that I cringe about, that I wish hadn't happened and so forth - but I guess I wouldn't be the person I am today (slowly but steadily growing and becoming a better version of myself) if not for those...I guess what I'm trying to say is I acknowledge those painful events and am willing to heal, learn and grow from them...am I making sense lol

Best wishes to you and yours. You are doing great😊👍🤝