You know - this line took me in a completely diff line of thinking - I grew up in an environment like this and it was too much pressure - maybe I did not want to be a 'driven' individual - there are far too many other things that give meaning to my life than achieving things that give me no pleasure or happiness - also I think one needs to find one's purpose in life and a lot of things will fall into place - finding your why can be a game changer but many don't know what that is and are therefore either all over the place or completely clueless