Yes - this resonates - as an introvert, I get this asked a lot and it is a rabbit hole I don't want to go down because it never ends with one question - it almost feels like you should feel guilty for not having 'plans' for the weekend - some ppl like staying home or going to the mountains - places that doesn't involve crowds and noise

Most of my restaurant experiences have been so so in the US - nothing to write home about - this one time there was this dude who thought himself too good for our table of visiting professors and was downright rude...I felt bad for our guests...we had picked the restaurant because of its high rating but I didn't realize it was also a bit racist