Well, let me tell you a funny story - I was volunteering at a program recently - so I show up ready to help and there was a "lady" probably old money ( you know the area) and used to having her way - she was the coordinator and started snapping out orders at me (on account of my brown skin, perhaps) - I turned around and walked out and went to enjoy a coffee in the cafeteria - I guess she carried out her orders herself ( probably anew experience for the likes of her lol)