This resonates,,,once the place I worked had a female boss like this and she made all our lives miserable - looking back I suspect it had something to do with her personal life which may have spilled over big time into her work life and there us - we were so happy when she got herself intentionally fired and moved away - no, nobody stood up to her even though everyone was unhappy - but good for you for putting her neatly in her place 😊💙👍