This reminds me of some I know who think how an ideal partner/spouse should be - looking for a partner with some ideal characteristics is one thing but looking for a partner who is in every way perfect is neither practical and is going to result in a lot of disappointment/heartache

I don't know, Nour - sometimes I feel if not for my life experiences I wouldn't be practical or have an understanding of things way beyond my age - life experiences are like that, they can be harsh teachers