This read resonated - especially the part where you talked about how church going men tend to be around their wives and other ppl -

I think faith is personal - at least to me it is - to want to be part of a faith should not be imposed - one must pursue it willingly - I also believe what it says in the Bible that it is a calling and not everyone gets called for this purpose - I have never believed in imposing my faith or opinion on others that way -

I have seen interracial, inter religion and vegan/non vegan couples - some are strife torn unions - while the others work - I guess it's more the live & let live approach