Nov 14, 2021
One would think you'd want to know more about what your partner wants to do but what I've come to realize is to keep expectations low to avoid disappointment and I'll explain why. I come from a culture where reading (apart from the newspaper or textbooks) is not encouraged and neither is talking about feelings. So I find that many of my friends and family members don't read what I write although some of them say they are happy for me.