Okay - I guess it is time for me to share something - my dad has always pushed me to be the best I can be - not easy when you come from a competitive culture such as mine but I persevered - again many educated women of my age are clueless about investments (let's talk SIP, SWP, mutual funds, stock market, real estate dealings etc) because they prefer a more simpler life - again my father taught me everything I needed to make good decisions with my portfolio - so yes, I totally get your post which by the way was vulnerable and beautiful 💙