Now that you mentioned it, it makes a lot of sense - my closest friend is the perfect combo of cheerleader and empathetic shoulder - it is amazing when you find a friend who embodies both these qualities - I honestly am not sure whether I would have been able to navigate some life challenges without her support - yes, I have other friends/family who have shades of Sandy and Nadine - and I believe, given the situation we may need a dose of cheerleading or someone to empathize (so just be careful of whom you pick up the phone to call 😆)
Perhaps I should write about this since your post has given me an idea - thanks!