No, they don't - thank you for bringing up this important point, Mona - I have a feeling that men's perception of what a woman wants has been thoroughly tainted by x rated vids and stuff - that is not a depiction of real life unless one is into mechanical stuff

I am saddened that the new gen (trying not to generalize here but it is the sad truth) in my home country is being brought up on a staple of readily available x rated stuff - they walk into a relationship with this in mind - it will take a lot of relearning to discern that truth is diff from fiction