Lol - I kid you not when I say most of the guys I know are visual creatures - its always the looks - the personality or what have you comes in a distant second 🙄 I have to admit when I was younger that gave me thrill but we now know how that typically ends -

If I were to describe a guy I like, it would never be the looks first - it would always be about how he makes me feel (my go to are thoughtful, or kind or caring...so old fashioned I know but that's me)