I wrote about a friend recently reaching out to me and how I decided not to pursue the friendship

Something was off...it is not just the fact that I have changed - am not the same person I was many years ago and wasn't interested in pursuing the same friendship dynamics - but as you said about Maura, I feel it was more a control thing - can't explain it - first they reach out but then act cagey for lack of a better word - or perhaps they were fishing for details or am I overthinking?

Couldn't deal with it so said no, thanks