I wish I could say this is uncommon - but in the heat of the moment ppl do tend to get defensive and perceive concern or compassion in the wrong sense - you did what you had to

I have been here for 2 + years now - I have not been bothered by def of success or not - I mean I am still learning everyday and still have a long way to go as a writer - however I have had issues with trolling and I have been very upfront about my experiences with that