I was listening to a talk about how diff personalities approach this type of situation - I have also seen how some within the same family respond to a a stressful situation - some completely withdraw and shut you out while others want to engage - yet another one takes a step back to cool off before coming back to the matter at hand - it is interesting to hear about all these perspectives - personally, I think the third one is the optimal, however, for me, things don't often go that way 😆