I used to get phone calls (a robot voice) telling me it is from the social security dept (I reprorted them, it stopped) - but I can see how alarming it can be to someone when they receive a call saying something is wrong with your social security or something and are quick to share their personal info -

I am sorry you are going through this, Susan - hang in there

Btw - on a lighter note - I think you should try writing humor pieces (if you haven't already) - I'd def read 😉