I used to dread going back to my home country for visits earlier - because I ppl considered the US with prosperity and they couldn't understand why I was on the slimmer side (they used to equate plumpness with good food) and so they'd ask really awkward questions - the perception has slowly changed - the last time I visited I had put on pandemic pounds and this time they were worried that I was not watching my weight - lol - go figure 🤷‍♀️

But yes, If it is a loved one and I have concerns I might convey them just to make sure they're okay