I know I talk a lot about my love hate rt with my culture but here is the thing - women of my gen and previous ones did not typically drink (unless you are like rich) - not because they did not want to but because it was frowned upon by men and also because they did not have access to drinks (bars and such were exclusively for men & dangerous for women to venture into) - so I guess that's why for the most part we have managed to stay away from alcohol but coming here I realize it is an icebreaker and the first qn the host usually asks is what would you like to drink - oh well