I hear you - in the old country men of the older generation absolutely don't abide these kind of things - they have been known to abandon meals (after making their disgust very clear and in no uncertain terms) -so women have to be extra careful when cooking meals for their family
I lost a lot of my hair to the point of going bald in the front of my scalp (extreme stress can do that) - I have even written about it if you want to check it out
https://medium.com/p/328369db45e
Thanks for the kind mention 💙