I don't know - when I go to a restaurant, I expect to order what I like and eat it - but then I get you - I once went to coffee and since the other was paying and she ordered just a small coffee from a pastry shop despite the rows and rows of delectable pastries on display, I didn't feel comfortable ordering what I wanted or offering to pay just for my stuff - it was her treat afterall - so I just ordered a small coffee too - I mean. c'mon, I can read a room🙄