I don't know Vishnu - I write about my experiences a lot and it is cathartic but I don't talk about it in the real world much - am not really a talker nor do I share my past - so that way there is a separation between the both - however, as I get close to a person and I feel comfortable, then I open up more but def not at the first, second or even third meetings - in other words, they have to earn my trust