He he...

You know there is so much pressure in my culture to get married and immediately start having kids - after having one, the pressure is on for when couple is planning for the second- or to have boys

It's crazy and offputting but then most of the time family and extended family jump into the mix -

When I think about all this, I'm glad am not in the old country because it is always pressure to get married, to have kids, to build a house ....ughhh