From a cultural perspective many times it is the women that encourage this women have their roles behavior - as in do the cooking, cleaning, laundry and child rearing - I know in my culture, the older generation women would frown if they heard a man cooked or (here's a novel thought) changed a diaper😱
I believe everyone has their opinions and convictions - that is what makes us unique individuals - I am me shaped by my upbringing and to a large part by my experiences and some (from my culture) may consider the way I choose to live and the choices I make not the norm - but it's my life