For some reason this touched me the most - most of my life I have found guys are attracted to me because I am pretty and have a soft voice - when they realize I have a high IQ and pretty strong opinions they feel intimidated -

Where does it say that brains is something only men have a monopoly over? Where does it say that women can't be pretty, intelligent and have opinions too?

I kid you not, sometimes I feel awful by the obsolete mindset that some ppl have -