A few years ago I was struggling through a very hard time and my best friend of 15 years told me straight up she couldn't help me or even support me - so she didn't speak to me until months later when she called to tell me how her amazing vacation went - I clearly told her the friendship was over and not to bother calling ever

She couldn't understand why I was making a big deal over

Since then I keep the number of my friends to a number which can be counted on one hand